hi i have a 14yr old boy with school phobia and seperation anxiety. this started in yr 7 and he is now in yr 9 and has hardly been to school due to the arguing and bickering by camhs and ewo over whether my son has a problem or just mollycoddled. he now has a camhs appt next week. and i am trying to teach him at home whilst waiting also due in court in august although both a pyschiatrist and ed pysch have both said he has problems. stressful most of the time, especially when we visit the ewo and my whole parenting style and character are torn shreds.