I came home from another 12 hour day to babysit my grand-daughters and live in niece. My wife works 12 hour shifts also, so by the time I got off of work she was already at her job. She calls me to tell me that our daughter (who lives with us) had a friend come over to watch the grand-daughters and niece ( who all live with us also) and that she went to visit an ex-boyfriend. So I'm exhausted and now have to babysit. Which my wife says is okay because the kids all go to bed at 9:00 and they would be asleep anyway. This happens all the time and everyone thinks that I am over re-acting.