Do I Have The Strength To Go On?

[Rachel_louise84]

Ok, So me and my partner of 6 years are having major problems. He accuses me all the time of cheating on him which I'm not. He makes me so angry. He goes through my laptop when I'm at work. Checks my mobile phone when I'm asleep!! Had enough. No matter how many times I've told him I'm not having an affair he just doesn't believe me. I'm not allowed male friends yet he's allowed to go round his female friends on his own!! So stressed right now. Feel so so depressed. Haven't gone to doctors because it makes me feel weak!! Just wish he gave he shit about me!!!!! I mean do I really have the strength to carry on at the minute??!?!

[gotoverit]

Rachel_louise84,
Really, really sorry to hear you are going through this. This is a age old problem and as much as you hate it you see where it is going. Chances are he is having an affair or affairs and doesn't want to feel alone. Not sure that is true but I have always heard if your mate repeatedly accuses you of having an affair chances are that is what he is doing and trying to keep you on the defense. I believe you summed it up right, you wish he gave a shit.
Ok, enough of that, on to possible solutions......try asking him what he would do if you were having an affair. There is that. Another way is ask him why you don't ask him if he is having an affair......then be ready with an answer.....because I don't give a shit.
My mother use to say there is more than one way to skin a cat....you could try either of these.
gotoverit