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  1. #1
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    Hi Everyone

    Just wondered if there are any other people out there who have severe social phobia and can't work? For the last 5 years I've traded on ebay from home and been a very part time dog sitter/walker. I haven't worked officially yet and I'm 30 yrs old. :unsure:

    It would be great to be in contact with others with the same probs.

    Billie

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    Hi Billie, yes, suffering similar to you, what started it.

  3. #3
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    Hi all,

    I saw this and jumped because I have similar problems; I have severe social anxiety and I can't go to school because of it. I have tried so many times to go to school but no matter what I do, I always end up back at square one, which for me is home schooling. I enjoy home schooling greatly, but even though I enjoy it, I wish I could go to school and meet new people and just be normal. Just a little more info about me though...

    I'm in my first year of high school and my fears are of what could happen, not neccesarily what will happen, are what worry me the most.
    To add to things, my negative self-image and low self-esteem have made me do some things that I'd love to blame on anything else but myself. That thing, you ask? I cut myself. It's my deepet, darkest (not so) secret. Everyone knows about it, but I wish no one did. I know that when people ask they are only curious, being so because they know nothing about it or because they just want to help. But when people ask me about it, in a way that they mean to mock me or make fun of me, it's the worst feeling in the world. It's like the feeling that I did something horribly wrong; that I've done something I can't take back or say sorry for. The cause of my anxiety in the first place is the fear of these things happening. The feelings I have when they actually happen are not nearly as bad as the feelings I have leading up to the situations. So basically, that is the source of my problems: the fear of the unknown and the fear of uncomfortable situations. So, that all being said... does anyone have any words of advice as to how to get through it? Maybe something that works for you or someone you know? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

  4. #4
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    hipsterflipster,

    I'm off to bed, but I wanted to give you this: Safe hugs! (((((hipsterflipster)))). I understand the severe social anxiety.. I'm still struggling with mine, but it takes daily effort and it gets slowly better and better. I hope to talk more later!

    Colourgirl

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    Hi Billie, I just found this web-site today and thought it might be good to find people with social anxiety that I can chat with. I've had this all my life. I have been in therapy for 17 years on and off. I'm 47 years old. I have a job and have had it for almost 3 years. This is the longest I ever held a job. I am in fear of losing it, I have recently walked out a couple of times due to my anxiety and panic disorder. I'ts hard and would be really nice to chat with someone who understands. universalape

  6. #6
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    I have horrible social phobia and I cannot stand the thought of being "trapped" with strangers in a strange place for eighthours a day. I feel like I don'treally have a personality so to speak. I have nothing to talk about except what I watch on t.v. When I try to talk to people I get nervous, sweat, stutter, jumble my words and often regret the conversation, however brief it was. I always feel like people think that I am ugly, or stupid, or boring. That or they secretly hate me and are just acting nice to my face. Because of my social phobia I have become agoraphobic. And I rarely leave my home.

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    I feel exactly the same :(

    Hi,

    Ive just read your post, and this is the very first time Ive looked on a site like this due to how desperate ive become . I feel exactly the same!
    I go to work (because i have to) and I feel like i have ne personality, and im percieved as boring or even ignorant as i dont or cant hold a conversation. I judge myself every second of everyday and therefore feel like everyone is judging me. I cant escape my thoughts. I have absolutely no friends, im single and have been for years and feel like thats my life. theres no help. I often think about ways of killing myself as i cant cope with the life i lead and cant see a way out.
    ive looked online for medication but what does seem to work for others isnt available in the uk and docs wont subscribe it due to the side effects.
    I never new how common this thing was until a couple of days ago, since looking online at sites like this, so my one comfort is that im not actually alone.
    I know how you feel...every single day is like a mountain to climb in regards to a normal working day...i dread every day
    Im sorry if what im saying is making you feel even more helpless, i just want you to know your not the only one and it would be great to chat to someone who feels the same.
    Take care xx

  8. #8
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    Hey just joined this group. Meeting my new partners mates yesterday reminded me how lonely it can get

  9. #9
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    Last edited by Lauwzs; 06-08-2018 at 04:30 PM.

  10. #10
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    I had to go on disability. Worked in a library, and dealing with the patrons scared me. Made several suicide attempts. See a pdoc. Meds are better today.

 

 

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