OK, I think the deal is.. Colourgirl is the moderator. She will have to approve your account or your first post maybe. She is out right now because of a surgery. She will be back soon. Leave her a note and tell her what your problem is. I think that as soon as she comes back on, she will have you fixed up. I am sorry you are having troubles.
you may need to sign out and sign back in..
It should show up as soon as you submit it. you may have to refresh the screen or something. This site doesnt do the autorefresh. I always click on the title Phobic-Awareness.org FORUMS up top left to refresh the page.
Good Morning Ben. Welcome to the site Mate!