Im a very logical & discerning guy who has seen & been through some rough things, things that would have broken most men. Ive had alot of dark periods in my life that has caused me to appreciate the simple things in life, know what its like to live large & fast a lifestyle that nearly ruined me. Im here to meet real people with real feelings none of that superficial bullshit, i cant relate to nonsense & not interested either. Im truly a caring genuine guy whos had to "harden up" growing up so its changed me a bit & i dont open up unless others understand hardships. Son of a loving mother, father of four daughters, ex drug addict, recovering alcoholic, still healing from several losses, love kids, compassionate towards the helpless & less fortunate. YAH