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08-14-2007, 03:21 PM
Hi, I'm new to this. I have a huge problem with lonliness. I don't like being alone with myself but at the same time find it hard to relax around people. I feel huge anxiety a lot of the time. I just wondered if there's anyone like me on this site. I crave hugs and reassurance constantly. Because I am on my own, apart from seeing a support worker once a week for a hour I get panicky having noone to help me if a problem occurs, doing anything on my own, which I have to do, I just find it so hard then I get annoyed having noone to lean on. Please excuse me if I'm waffling, I'd like to try and learn to trust I know I have a lot to offer, and hope I can help others on this site. Anyway Bye for now, Karma .
08-14-2007, 04:25 PM
I can understand what you're saying and empathise. I too find it tough to relax around people and, as I live alone, I tend to stay inside the house and hermit. I suffer a lot of anxiety out in public and so I avoid it wherever possible.
I hope you make some good friends here that can help you out and to talk with.
08-14-2007, 04:33 PM
Welcome to the site. I (and probably a lot of others) can relate to what you are experiencing.
I like to be alone most of the time but also feel very lonely when there's no one there if I am afraid or anxious. I have all my lovely friends here who have always been there. hope you can find some too.
Hope to see you in chat
Nice to meet you i hope you can enjoy the company and comfort from people here and in chat :)
You take care
Its very nice to meet you great people here
08-15-2007, 09:28 AM
Welcome here to this great place hope it can help you as much as has myself
08-15-2007, 09:50 PM
I'm sure you'll make some friends and hopefully you'll find the advice and listening ears you need.
Take care :)
Welcome to Phobic's. I'm sure you will find this a safe supportive place where you can laugh and cry depending on what your needs may be. The feeling of lonilyness can all disapate now. We have a Chat which is there 24 hours a day so no matter what time you need to talk to someone it's there and I have never found a time when there was not someone there to talk to. I think this is mainly due to the fact that the members are all over the world so when one set is sleeping the other set is having dinner. I'm sure you get what I mean. I also hate being alone but hate being around people even more. I infact hate to be touched but when I enter the fourm or the chat room its just completly different. I love cyber hugs and there is plenty of reasurances to go along with it. There can be up to 30 ppl chating in the room at one time and you can laugh and have a great time as if you were at a cocktail party but not have the panic of being around that many people. I look forward to seeing you in chat or reading more of your posts on the forum.
A huge welcome to the forum ,here you need never be lonely everyone heres a great bunch :)
08-30-2007, 07:46 AM
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08-30-2007, 07:48 AM
Welcome to the forum, Hope to see ya in Chat room where it can get wild and well wild. :D
08-30-2007, 08:03 AM
KARMA,,,,,WELCOME TO THE FORUM,,,,, I HOPE TO MEET YOU IN CHAT ,,,YOU WILL NOT FEEL ALONE HERE IT IS A WARM AND FRIENDLY PLACE ....
08-30-2007, 06:06 PM
<span style='color:blue'><span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'>i suffer from social anxiety and find life tough out there. I am at moment getting help from a occupational therapist.She takes me out to places i normally avoid.The worst thing about this disorder is that "normal" plp do not understand ur suffering.This is a great site and very supportive a big welcome to u.</span></span>
hi karma,welcome.I'm fairly new to this forum and chatroom.you have come to a great place.the people here are great.very kind and supportive.
hi karma and a very warm welcome to you.were all here for you!!
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