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08-13-2007, 05:52 PM
I just so sick of the way I feel. I feel like everyone hates me. No one takes the time to listen (or read) what I say so they take what I'm saying all wrong. Then when they finally do read what I said its to fucking late anyway. :(

Last night I busted my head on the new sink my husband put in my bathroom. It really was not that big of a deal my only concern was how much it was bleeding. I was sitting on the bed with my head up against the wall and a towel inbetween, In about an hour i managed to soak 3 towels. I told the room and called my husband who is a cop to come home. I kept putting my hands in it because the way it felt I had thought it was a hole that I could fit two fingers into. It did not hurt at all tho. I stood in the room and typed away letting everyone know what was going on, as a matter of fact I don't even think I mentioned it for the first hour before I called my husband. I went to the hospital and it turns out it was not a hole but a flap. they gave me some glue (if you can freaking imagine that) and a few stickes I had a catscan to make sure all was well and was back at home after about 4 hours. I was so proud of myself for not freaking out at the hospital, I stood calm threw the hole thing and did really well. ;)

As soon as I got home I jumped in the room to report how well I had done. Instantly I was PM'ed by two members telling me how the people in the room were not only making fun of me but acusing me of making the whole thing up! :o Can you imagine. As if I did it for attnetion. Only one problem if I made it up I had to leave the room until the middle of the night when virtually evreyone was gone. :blink:

These people that I talk to everyday and consider to be my chat buddies were making fun of me? I felt the knife slide right into my back. I feel like a fool, I feel like No one really gives a shit about me here and not very many even like me. So why am I here. Why do I bother to stay. :(
I have noticed recently that when people do reply to my posts they seem to be mocking me for what I write or take things tottaly out of context. On person practacally called me a moron for something that I posted that help me. I just don't get it. Am I a nasty person. I must be at the very least anoying to have such a negitive respose from people. I just dont understand. :huh:

Emma :unsure:

Rich-Admin
08-13-2007, 06:16 PM
Hiya Emma,

Sorry to hear about your head :(

Glad your ok though, Any problems with chat please report it to me or dolphin and give us their names, One thing will will not put up with is bitchy or snide remarks off anyone,

We have been in chat rooms where this hapens, We wil not let it happen in this chat room, We are here to help each other and i think people need to be reminded of that sometimes,

We all have our off days, But there is no reason to be nasty to anyone in chat, <span style='color:red'>I think people forget that they were new once to the chat room and as everyone know's it takes some getting used to, </span>
Hopefully we can stamp out any nastyness in chat.

jk.

gill
08-13-2007, 06:53 PM
I just so sick of the way I feel. I feel like everyone hates me. No one takes the time to listen (or read) what I say so they take what I'm saying all wrong. Then when they finally do read what I said its to fucking late anyway.* :(

Last night I busted my head on the new sink my husband put in my bathroom. It really was not that big of a deal my only concern was how much it was bleeding. I was sitting on the bed with my head up against the wall and a towel inbetween, In about an hour i managed to soak 3 towels. I told the room and called my husband who is a cop to come home. I kept putting my hands in it because the way it felt I had thought it was a hole that I could fit two fingers into. It did not hurt at all tho. I stood in the room and typed away letting everyone know what was going on, as a matter of fact I don't even think I mentioned it for the first hour before I called my husband. I went to the hospital and it turns out it was not a hole but a flap. they gave me some glue (if you can freaking imagine that) and a few stickes I had a catscan to make sure all was well and was back at home after about 4 hours. I was so proud of myself for not freaking out at the hospital, I stood calm threw the hole thing and did really well.* ;)

As soon as I got home I jumped in the room to report how well I had done. Instantly I was PM'ed by two members telling me how the people in the room were not only making fun of me but acusing me of making the whole thing up!* :o Can you imagine. As if I did it for attnetion. Only one problem if I made it up I had to leave the room until the middle of the night when virtually evreyone was gone.* :blink:

These people that I talk to everyday and consider to be my chat buddies were making fun of me? I felt the knife slide right into my back. I feel like a fool, I feel like No one really gives a shit about me here and not very many even like me. So why am I here. Why do I bother to stay. :(
I have noticed recently that when people do reply to my posts they seem to be mocking me for what I write or take things tottaly out of context. On person practacally called me a moron for something that I posted that help me. I just don't get it. Am I a nasty person. I must be at the very least anoying to have such a negitive respose from people. I just dont understand.* :huh:

Emma* :unsure:


Hi Emma.......Gill here
You sound really 'cheesed off' but if you need a friend i'm here and in 'chat' too.
Don't let the odd person influence weather you should stay on the site coz in my experience most seem really nice and a good laugh too.
Hope your head's ok now.
Kind regards.
Gill x

Jane~BH
08-14-2007, 03:14 AM
Hope your head is feeling better today .

08-14-2007, 04:04 AM
Yes thank you guys my head does feel much better to be honest it never really hurt in the first place. I just wanted to say sorry for my rant. I know realize I made very general statements and I should have waited a few days before posting anything, I guess that is what this section is for. Better we come in here and do it rather then the room. Which needs to reamain a safe haven for a lot of us. So if you read this and was offended I'm sorry, the truth is I wasnt' speaking about any individual person, just a group. And I am not longer in high school and should never let myself get so worked up over gossip. Those of you that have chatted with me offten know whey people start talking about someone that is not there I will always speak up and say it is inapropreate to talk about them when they ara not there to defend themselves, and I really don't care if you have said it directly to them its just not fair. Unless of course the conversation is positive in nature.

Well sorry for venting on you guys. But thanks for listening all the same.

Emma

08-14-2007, 03:38 PM
Yes thank you guys my head does feel much better to be honest it never really hurt in the first place. I just wanted to say sorry for my rant. I know realize I made very general statements and I should have waited a few days before posting anything, I guess that is what this section is for. Better we come in here and do it rather then the room. Which needs to reamain a safe haven for a lot of us. So if you read this and was offended I'm sorry, the truth is I wasnt' speaking about any individual person, just a group. And I am not longer in high school and should never let myself get so worked up over gossip. Those of you that have chatted with me offten know whey people start talking about someone that is not there I will always speak up and say it is inapropreate to talk about them when they ara not there to defend themselves, and I really don't care if you have said it directly to them its just not fair. Unless of course the conversation is positive in nature.

Well sorry for venting on you guys. But thanks for listening all the same.

Emma



I feel I need to clarigy this, went i said to be honest it never really hurt in the first place I ment that it was never painful not that it never happened. I did not make this up, but i see how some read what a wrote wong sorry i have a habit of not being about to get my point across properly

Emma